A little black book is only as good as the members listed in it! Welcome to my book and the stud of the week!

Stud #1 - Vince

What makes a woman sexy? Attitude, the right type of attitude. There is a reason a girl can make a big over-sized jersey and grey sweatpants sexy. It’s that look she gives you, that attitude that says “I’m gorgeous, and I want you.”



If you were not at your office working what would you be doing? Exploring. I love to travel, and not the typical “take an airplane to another city, go out to eat, and look at pictures and art and shit”. I like to go into the world and look around, peek at all of the stuff that isn’t blaring you in the eye. That doesn’t necessarily mean go cave diving either. Take a walk around the city on an unbeaten path (bring a taser). I like to search for substance and meaning in a world that is rapidly commercializing, serializing and becoming more fake and bland with every reality TV show or new hip bar. There is a jungle in my back yard, and I play in it.







Your secret to keeping a girl interested? Be interesting. Its not as hard as it seems. A lot of my guy friends think they constantly have to up the dating game. Fancier restaurants, exclusive clubs, crazy date ideas. One of my friends thought a horse drawn carriage through the city would make this girl melt for him. The problem is that it’s all style, no substance. Unless you are into gold digging dumbasses, a girl is going to see through the facade if you have nothing else to offer. A carriage ride is sweet, romantic, nice, but its not fucking interesting. I like to talk to my girl while I’m driving, explore her mind. People watching can be one of the best ways to get to know the person sitting right next to you. You get the rare opportunity to see what she really thinks, how she judges (I said how not if, we all fucking judge…) and its safe for her because it’s a game and she feels comfortable being frank with you. The bottom line, is you have to be invested in yourself first, before anyone else can find you interesting.



I won’t leave home without… My cell phone. I want to stay connected. I hate when I can’t get a hold of people so I like to spare the rest of the world that feeling (I’m popular, deal with it). Plus, I sound really sexy on the phone (late night chat anyone?)



Favorite game to play? Hmmmm. I know this really cool chick who invented a game…Playing the Field. Of course that one is my favorite! Plus it has saved my ass on quite a few dates - keeps the conversation going on those occasions when my brain quits working.



Favorite sporting event: Soccer and Surfing are a pretty close tie. I love watching two really good soccer teams play each other. Its like a real live chess match (I’m a nerd and a jock… that’s pretty fucking interesting), but the down side is I get bored with it. I’ve been playing soccer since I was 6, so I start to over-analyze the game and watch for weaknesses and shit. It ruins enjoying the spectator part. I love watching really good surfers shred. Jamie O’Brian and Taj Barrow are my two favorite surfers. The only problem about watching surfing is it makes me want to go surf. Then I get sad because I’m just not that good, yet.



If you were stranded on a deserted island, what three things would you take with you? Tungsten Carbide SEAL knife (one of the best survival knifes in the world), Maui Jim Titanium Sport glasses (some of the lightest, most durable sunglasses around), and my surfboard. I can make the rest (I watch way too much Discovery Channel).







What is your biggest pet peeve? Hypocrites and liars. I quit lying - and I’m serious, besides the little white lies to my boss and authority figures, I haven’t lied in about 2 years. It was one of the best things I’ve done for my peace of mind and a drama free life. And I can’t stand hypocritical people. Just typing this up is making me pissed off, next question…



On a Saturday night you will find me… I have no fucking clue. Sometimes at home writing, sometimes wasted in a bar in Atlanta/Clemson/Random College/City, sometimes wandering around outside. It all depends on where I am and who’s around.



How do you break up with someone? I tell them the reason I don’t want to be with them. It’s that simple. I don’t pussy foot around, or make up some lame excuse, or tell the girl I think she is amazing. If the bitch was amazing, I’d probably still be with her. But at the same time, I won’t harp on her either. I’m not out to make someone feel like shit just because I don’t want to date her. So I’m honest but I try to be as tactful as I can. But everyone knows I’m not the best at tact…se la vi



I am most comfortable in: my smile










KNOW A GUY WHO SHOULD BE IN MY LITTLE BLACK BOOK? I want him!



Send me an email at studoftheweek@gmail.com include a picture of him and why you think he is so studly. Once I give him the once over, we’ll have a chat and I’ll include him on the list!



P.S. Boys, feel free to contact me yourself - nominations aren’t required…plus I love a confident man!



Want Vince? Email me at studoftheweek@gmail.com and put his name in the subject line. I’ll forward it along to him!